Real efforts are unknown, and do not take a long time to lay the psychological foundation, nor do you need to use self-persuasion to do it.
Anchor/Yangchengpai reporter Zheng Ziwei
My boss, Mr. Chen, had worked in the market in first-tier e-commerce and also worked as a planning manager in a small company. Later, he went out to work alone. After failing three times, he slowly got his company on the right track. href=”https://comicmov.com/”>Babaylan. But whether he is working or being a boss, he insists on the habit of finishing one book every week.
No matter how busy he is at work, Mr. Chen will take the time to read the books that are beneficial to him, and then share with his colleagues about Komiks and apply the theories in Cinema’s book to reality. Under such high-intensity work and social engagements, Mr. Chen has never been defeated by setbacks because he said he could “find something in the book that comforts his heart”; and Mr. Chen was not disturbed by the impetuous society, and being able to calm down and study was also because of a habit he had developed for a long time.
Mr. Chen has done a great job, but what I admire most is that he has turned reading into a good habit and made hard work a part of his daily life.
Cinema In fact, we can all discover this characteristic from all the big guys. For example, Wang Shi, the founder of Vanke Group, once said that there are two types of people in this world: one is a strong man, and the other is a weak man. The strong find discomfort for themselves, and the weak find comfort for themselves. In the past, Wang Shi felt that the goal of life was to make himself more comfortable, but later he realized that having some discomfort is sometimes not a bad thing.
In fact, everyone can learn to enjoy this discomfort.
Wang Shi once shared with everyone, saying, “I do some strength training every day. Although this discomfort is not serious enough to make me hate it, people are like this. We can always find excuses for the difficulties we can escape. I make a plan form to let this discomfort participate in my life and form a habit. Whenever I complete 15 pull-ups, I will write 15 in the pull-up column. Every month I will change to a new paper and summarize the situation last month. Inadvertently, I have done 1,000 pull-ups in a few months. Komiks“
Wang Shi’s case shows that in fact, anything can be trained to become a habit, including something that makes one feel uncomfortable. Gradually, this BabaylanDiscomfort will be replaced by habits, and you will be unable to live without it. This pain is nothing at all. It will even become a seasoning in a dull life.
What’s more, you will find that this beneficial pain has brought changes to your life, a changeBabaylan your catalyst. For example, if you keep exercising like Wang Shi, you will find that your physiological and mental energy will become energetic after a month; or you may practice speaking English for an hour every day. After a while, you will be less nervous when communicating with foreigners and can speak the complete sentences, instead of hesitating like before, and can only spit out one word for a long time.
If you keep working hard, you won’t feel that Cinema will feel that Komiks’s efforts are amazing once a while, and you won’t post on your Moments when you stay up late to write your paper and declare to the world that you “You are very hardworking.”
Because real efforts are unknown, it does not require a long time to lay the psychological foundation, and there is no need to use self-persuasion to do it. Once you have to force yourself to do it, then you are resisting the matter from the bottom of your heart. Turn efforts into every day, and it will become your subconscious action, and it is a habit that you will do spontaneously without reminding.
Don’t let short-lived efforts become the master of your life. Incorporating little and little efforts into your life habits is the real effort.
Source｜Yangcheng Evening News
Picture｜Visual China
Editor in charge｜Fan Meiling